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She… The Woman Who Wanted It All

  It was   his   birthday. Like every year, she knew it was her job to make it special. That is how it had   always been. She had the party planned to the last detail. The kids were almost adults and could have been more helpful, but she knew better than to depend on them! As she picked his gift from the wrapping station, she decided to make it early to his house and get the preparations going. Getting into the driver’s seat, she turned towards the house that was once her home. A home for 17 years, a home built with love and memories. A home she had ‘dumped without a second thought’…. or so they said! 22 years back….. They both had gone to the same university, pursued the same degrees, but only he had completed his education for 5 long years after their marriage, adding new degrees under his belt! She had worked to keep themselves afloat till he got into a blue-chip job. For the next 5 years, they had moved across countries, traveled the world, before finally settlin...

Woman in her 40s: A Force to Reckon!

Recently I came across a WhatsApp forward message that was doing the rounds. It was about women, predominantly women in their 40s, how they change emotionally, get more assertive, and unafraid to tread on their own. While I usually rubbish cliches, this one I couldn't help but agree, mostly because it had a resounding echo to my own sentiments. And yes, I indeed feel that women at a certain point do undergo a radical emotional change that is hard to ignore. 40 may be a speculative figure, but personally, I am experiencing it right now, and yes, I'm in my early 40s. So let's give due validation to the sentiment that entering into our 40s is a milestone and every bit worth the celebration and hype around it. Having said that, you don't really wake up on your 40th birthday feeling any different. So don't earmark that year assuming things will change magically and you'll become a unicorn! But along the way, here are those subliminal changes that mark a woman's e...